Tuesday, 19 March 2024
UKRAINE NEEDS AN EVACUATION PLAN
Monday, 18 March 2024
WILL THE REAL BRIGITTE MACRON PLEASE STAND UP
The report contrasts public narratives with findings from the inputs of private records and interviews, highlighting discrepancies that raise questions about the true identity of Brigitte Macron. The results found no match between Brigitte before her marriage with at and after, with more than 95% confidence, but a reasonable chance - 50 to 55% - match between school photos of her brother and photos of Brigitte at "her" marriage.
Saturday, 16 March 2024
UNDERSTANDING SOME DEEPER ISSUES OF THE CONFLICT IN THE M.E.
Pretty much everyone the world over is completely horrified at the way the Dews in Israil are slaughtering the Mooslims, all with the support, moral amd material, of the American foreign policy class.
Friday, 15 March 2024
SEMITES FIGHTING
A ROMANTIC PERSON
A ROMANTIC MAN IS
A romantic man often embodies characteristics and behaviours that are attentive, thoughtful, and expressive, aimed at making their partner feel loved, valued, and special. Here are some key traits:1. Thoughtfulness He remembers important dates, preferences, and small details about his partner, demonstrating that he listens and values their interests and needs.
2. Expressiveness He's not shy about sharing his feelings, whether through words, actions, or gestures, letting his partner know they are loved and appreciated.
3. Creativity A romantic man often thinks outside the box to surprise his partner with unique and personalised gestures, showing effort and thought in making moments special.
4. Attentiveness He pays attention to his partner's moods and needs, offering support, understanding, and presence when needed.
5. Generosity This isn't just about gifts or material things but also about being generous with his time, attention, and affection.
6. Passion He demonstrates a strong emotional connection and desire for his partner, not just physically but in all aspects of the relationship.
7. Gestures of Love From small acts like leaving love notes or sending "thinking of you" messages to grand gestures like surprise getaways or elaborate date nights, he knows how to make his partner feel special.
8. Respect Fundamental to any romantic behaviour is a deep respect for his partner’s feelings, autonomy, and individuality, always prioritising their comfort and consent.
9. Commitment He shows commitment to the relationship, working to build a strong bond and facing challenges together, ensuring his partner feels secure and valued.
10. Empathy Understanding and empathis2ing with his partner's feelings, he navigates the relationship with kindness and compassion.
A romantic man is, essentially, someone who puts in the effort to ensure his actions and words make his partner feel cherished and important.
A ROMANTIC WOMAN IS
A romantic woman embodies
traits and behaviours that reflect her deep appreciation for love and
relationships, focusing on nurturing a strong emotional connection with her
partner. Here are some characteristics that are often associated with being
romantic:
1. Expressive Affection She freely
expresses her love and affection through words, gestures, and actions, making
her partner feel valued and adored.
2. Thoughtfulness Paying attention to the
little things that matter to her partner, she remembers important dates,
preferences, and nuances, making gestures that show she cares and understands.
3. Creativity She comes up with unique
and personalised ways to show love, whether through handmade gifts, special
dates, or surprises that add excitement and depth to the relationship.
4. Empathy Demonstrating a deep
understanding of her partner’s feelings and needs, she is supportive and
compassionate, always ready to listen and provide comfort.
5. Generosity Beyond material gifts, she
is generous with her time, attention, and emotional support, ensuring her
partner feels heard, seen, and supported.
6. Passion She maintains a strong
emotional and physical connection, showing desire and attraction towards her
partner in a way that keeps the relationship vibrant.
7. Commitment Displaying dedication to
the relationship, she works towards building a strong, lasting bond and faces
challenges together with a positive, solution-focused approach.
8. Adventurousness Willing to try new
things and share experiences together, she keeps the relationship lively and
engaging, fostering a sense of partnership and shared growth.
9. Respect At the heart of her romantic
actions is a deep respect for her partner’s individuality, choices, and
boundaries, promoting a healthy, balanced relationship.
10. Communication She values open and
honest communication, sharing her feelings, desires, and concerns in a way that
fosters trust and understanding.
A romantic woman, in essence, places importance
on making her partner feel cherished, fostering a loving and supportive
environment where the relationship can flourish.
MACRON STOP STRUTTING START WORKING
Le président de la République s’est adressé aux Français ce jeudi 14 mars au soir, lors d’un entretien télévisé aux JT de TF1 et de France 2. Voici ce qu’il faut retenir de son interview sur la guerre en Ukraine.
Emmanuel Macron lors d'une interview à l'Élysée le 14 mars 2024© Ludovic MARIN / AFP
Emmanuel Macron s’est expliqué pendant presque quarante minutes devant les Français sur les enjeux du soutien à l'Ukraine, après ses propos controversés sur le possible envoi de militaires occidentaux, face à une Russie de plus en plus "menaçante" selon lui en Europe.
À trois mois des élections européennes, son entretien aux "20H" de TF1 et France 2 a, par ailleurs, marqué son entrée dans la campagne, après le premier meeting de son camp dimanche à Lille.
La France va-t-elle envoyer des troupes en Ukraine?
Emmanuel Macron a affirmé jeudi 14 mars que l'Europe devait être "prête à répondre" à une "escalade" menée selon lui par la Russie, mais sans "jamais" prendre "l'initiative" du combat militaire face à cette puissance nucléaire.
"Jamais, nous ne mènerons d'offensive, jamais, nous ne prendrons l'initiative. La France est une force de paix", a déclaré le chef de l'État aux journaux télévisés de 20H de TF1 et France 2.
Il entendait ainsi rassurer après avoir semé le trouble, dans l'opinion et chez les autres alliés de Kiev, en jugeant fin février qu'il ne fallait pas exclure l'envoi, à l'avenir, de militaires occidentaux en Ukraine.
Cette nouvelle posture du président, qui dénonce un "durcissement" de Moscou et tente d'imposer son leadership dans l'aide à l'armée ukrainienne, a été critiquée par de nombreux homologues européens et par l'ensemble de ses opposants français.
Selon un sondage Elabe pour La Tribune, l'opinion n'est pas en reste: 79% des personnes interrogées s'opposent à l'envoi de troupes combattantes au sol et même 47% à celui de formateurs. S'adressant directement aux Français par cette interview, Emmanuel Macron a toutefois assumé une fois de plus sa position.
Pourquoi la Russie ne doit-elle pas gagner?
"Si la Russie venait à gagner", "nous n'aurons plus de sécurité" et la "crédibilité de l'Europe sera réduite à zéro", a-t-il estimé. "Nous avons un objectif: la Russie ne peut pas et ne doit pas gagner cette guerre", qui est "existentielle pour notre Europe et pour la France", a-t-il insisté.
En conséquence, il a tenté de faire de la pédagogie sur cette "ambiguïté stratégique" qu'il défend face au président russe Vladimir Poutine.
La France doit être “prête”
"Nous avons mis trop de limites, si je puis dire, dans notre vocabulaire", a expliqué Emmanuel Macron, rappelant que les Occidentaux avaient dit, après l'invasion russe de l'Ukraine il y a deux ans, qu'ils n'enverraient "jamais" de chars ou de missiles de moyenne portée à Kiev, avant de franchir ces lignes rouges face à l'évolution du conflit.
"Si la situation devait se dégrader, nous devons être prêts et nous serons prêts", a-t-il martelé. "Il y a une escalade de la part de la Russie" et "nous devons dire que nous sommes prêts à répondre".
Ceux qui posent des limites sont “faibles”
Il a donc affirmé que ceux qui posent "des limites" à leur soutien à l'Ukraine, face à un Vladimir Poutine qui a lui "franchi toutes les limites", décident "d'être faibles" et "ne font pas le choix de la paix mais font le choix de la défaite".
Il a précisé viser à la fois ceux qui, cette semaine au Parlement français, se sont abstenus (le Rassemblement national) ou ont voté contre (La France insoumise et les communistes) l'accord bilatéral de sécurité avec l'Ukraine. Mais aussi ceux qui, ailleurs en Europe, invoquent ces limites.
Une mise au point qui risque d'être fraîchement accueillie vendredi à Berlin, où le président français se rend pour tenter d'apaiser les tensions avec le chancelier allemand Olaf Scholz, décuplées ces dernières semaines autour de cette question. Les deux dirigeants vont se voir en tête-à-tête, avant un sommet à trois incluant aussi le Premier ministre polonais Donald Tusk.
Menace nucléaire?
À moins de trois mois des élections européennes, cet entretien marque aussi de facto son entrée en campagne, après le premier meeting de son camp samedi à Lille. Il a pris la parole dans la foulée du premier grand débat des européennes, sur Public Sénat, au cours duquel ses opposants ont dénoncé sa position "irresponsable".
Le camp présidentiel entend notamment axer sa campagne sur le soutien à l'Ukraine, accusant le RN, largement en tête dans les sondages, et LFI d'entretenir des positions prorusses.
Deux ans après le début de l'offensive russe, son impact sur les économies européennes et une certaine lassitude des opinions se font aussi sentir. Vladimir Poutine alimente lui-même ce sentiment en agitant en permanence la menace d'un conflit nucléaire.
"Nous devons nous sentir particulièrement protégés parce que nous sommes justement cette puissance dotée" de la bombe atomique, a dit Emmanuel Macron. "Nous sommes prêts. Nous avons une doctrine qui est établie", a-t-il ajouté, tout en évoquant la "responsabilité" française de "ne jamais être dans l'escalade".
Pourquoi aider les Ukrainiens?
Enfin, le président de la République a répondu aux questions des internautes sur la guerre en Ukraine sur X (Twitter). Dans une courte vidéo de deux minutes, il apporte des réponses à la question: pourquoi aider l’Ukraine?
“Aider l’Ukraine, c’est d’abord aider un pays qui est attaqué dans ses frontières, un pays qui est européen. Un pays dont la souveraineté est remise en cause, dont la sécurité est menacée. Aider l’Ukraine, c’est aussi s’occuper de notre sécurité”.
Emmanuel Macron poursuit: “La Russie est devenue une puissance qui veut s’étendre, et elle ne s’arrêtera pas là. Si on laisse l’Ukraine perdre, alors, à coup sûr, la Russie menacera la Moldavie, la Roumanie, la Pologne… il n’y a pas de sécurité européenne possible”.
Enfin, pour le président, aider l’Ukraine est aussi “un devoir” et "notre intérêt à court terme".
“Aider l’Ukraine est nécessaire, pour aujourd’hui et encore plus pour demain. Pour vous convaincre totalement, si nous arrêtions d’aider l’Ukraine, elle n’a aucune chance de gagner la guerre”, conclut-il.
WINES OF BALI
Thursday, 14 March 2024
HOW TO MANAGE YOUR MENTAL HEALTH AS A LAWYER
Legal sector’s toxic culture exposed as experts warn of mental health risks
Adam Mawardi
and
Lucy Burton,
EMPLOYMENT EDITOR
10 March 2024 • 10:00am
The unwritten message fed to law firm partners is to show no sign of struggle. So when an overworked partner decided to email the head of the firm saying she felt herself spiralling, perhaps she shouldn’t have been surprised by the lack of urgency in his response.
“I emailed my boss saying there’s zero help here, it’s all-consuming,” she says. “They booked a meeting in the diary, but now it’s been moved to later this month. He probably thinks I’m just flipping out.”
The partner says she copes by venting to her husband or “getting p----d” with her friends.
But it doesn’t fix the fundamental issues in the legal sector, which she says is still run by “d--- swingers happy to talk about how they work all the hours God sends”.
Senior leaders are starting to speak out in the hope of getting rid of the stigma. Dominic Griffiths, the London head of law firm Mayer Brown, says he too suffered in silence after battling a mental health crisis years ago.
He says: “I didn’t tell anyone at work and just about managed to cope. It is no secret that law is a high pressure and high stakes sector. You cannot get away from that fact, especially when you are working with large global clients.”
James Bremen, chair of construction and engineering at Quinn Emanuel, a US law firm based in London, recalls twice being hospitalised with pneumonia triggered by physical exhaustion from a period of working extremely late nights with only two hours of sleep.
The issue of mental health in the legal sector was thrown into the spotlight earlier this month following the death of Vanessa Ford, a senior partner at Pinsent Masons, who according to a coroner’s inquest was suffering from an “acute mental health crisis”.
The inquest heard she worked 18-hour days advising on the sale of Everton FC in the months prior to her death, trade publication Law.com reported. A Pinsent Masons spokesman said the firm was “assessing how we can make appropriate changes that will genuinely make a difference”.
In 2019, Paul Rawlinson, the former head of Baker McKenzie, committed suicide after suffering from an “acute depressive illness”. David Latham, a partner at Hogan Lovells struggling with work-related stress, died in 2013 a day after he told a colleague that he was going to kill himself. It was dismissed as a “flippant” comment, Westminster coroner’s court heard.
The deaths of senior lawyers, such as Paul Rawlinson, have shone a spotlight on the legal industry
In a recent study conducted by mental health charity LawCare, lawyers across the UK said they are at high risk of burnout and face intense workloads. However, despite widespread efforts to improve mental health in the legal sector, particularly after Covid, insiders say little has changed.
A spotlight was shone on the sector’s toxic culture last year, when an associate of US law firm Paul Hastings shared a list of “non-negotiable expectations” for junior colleagues which included “you are ‘online’ 24/7. No exceptions, no excuses”.
Other rules on the list included “clients expect everything to be done perfectly and delivered yesterday” and “‘I don’t know’ is never an acceptable answer”.
Paul Hastings at the time said the list was prepared by an associate and the views “do not reflect the views of the firm or its partners”.
But the slide laid bare an uncomfortable reality for many.
“Even when not working, I found myself thinking about work,” admits a lawyer who has just quit his job at a top City firm as a result of the pressures. “It’s the sleepless nights – going to bed and then lying awake thinking about work.”
Lucy Myers, the founder of Therapeutic Coaching Consultancy, says unhealthy behaviours such as working long hours without a break and taking on multiple projects can even be seen as “strengths” within legal circles. Those suffering then double down further, heading for burnout.
“This is when the unhealthy coping mechanisms such as substance or alcohol abuse and gambling can kick in. They’re another attempt to ‘survive’ and find a way to keep going,” she says.
“Eventually their personal relationships begin to suffer as a result, which can exacerbate the feeling that the job has to be the priority. And so the cycle continues.”
Patrick Krill, a former US lawyer who has conducted academic studies on mental health, addiction and suicide, has found that alcohol has become the “primary drug of choice” to help lawyers cope with stress.
He says: “The use of alcohol is very culturally embedded in the legal profession, and it is something beginning in law school that is highly normalised.”
However, many find the work itself addicting especially because the industry tends to “lionise” workaholics, adds Krill.
Sahar Farooqi, a commercial barrister and former partner at DAC Beachcroft, recalls once bringing his work laptop on holiday to Santorini while working on large international disputes with very tight deadlines.
He would sneak off to the bathroom to send emails and wait until everyone was asleep to do more work.
“Like any kind of addict, you think you’ve gotten away with it because you’ve managed to close your laptop, put your phone back in your pocket and return to whatever the social setting was,” he says. “People can sense that you’re not present.”
Often what stops lawyers from breaking free is what attracted them to the profession in the first place: money. City partners, constantly judged by the profits they generate, are rewarded with seven-figure pay packages and bonuses.
This puts pressure on more senior lawyers with financial commitments such as mortgages and private school fees.
Jonathan Moult, who became a psychologist after many years as a senior partner, adds: “When people say, ‘what do you miss about the law?’ I think I, and most people say, it’s the money.
“It’s a very money-based environment and it is difficult to give up.”
The pressure is particularly high on law firm partners, who as owners of the business carry the responsibility of avoiding cyber attacks and anti-money-laundering breaches, while managing the expectations of Gen Z lawyers demanding a better work-life balance.
Skill shortages among junior lawyers who trained remotely during the pandemic have added to this burden, increasing the reputational and liability risks on their supervising partners.
Bremen, who has been a lawyer for more than 25 years, says: “If you can’t have the same level of reliance that you used to have on young people then that pressure comes back on to you to make sure it’s right.”
He notes that Quinn Emanuel, a US law firm based in London, resolves this challenge by carefully hiring lawyers who are eager to work hard, and is upfront with recruits about its extremely high expectations. Additionally it monitors staff to provide support when needed.
To make real change some believe that law firms need to forget all the soft policies they’ve been working on and just get rid of billable hours, which pile pressure on staff and encourage long hours.
Leah Steele, a former Irwin Mitchell lawyer turned burnout coach, is sceptical. She argues that scrapping the billable hours would see metric-obsessed firms quickly find another way to measure performance and productivity.
One London head of a US law firm instead argued that workers must speak out if they need help – they can’t solely rely on their employers to always spot the signs.
He says: “You need the person to take some responsibility for their own mental health in the same way that you take responsibility for your physical health. But you need the firm to create an environment that’s receptive if someone says, ‘I’m having issues, I’m struggling’.”