7 April 2022
Sunday, day 0
Tomorrow is Friday, day 5 after the operation on my shoulder, which was last Sunday. That op. put me into a light trauma, a kind of post traumatic shock syndrome someone said to me.
Monday, day 1
So Monday I was quite disoriented. Some friends noticed this and rallied round, asking me questions about the experience and getting me to talk; for those here in CM, offering practical help as the shock of a six hour operation was one thing, but in practical terms, I've only got one arm! Just try to imagine that!!
Tuesday, day 2
But by Tuesday, when I left hospital, two days after the six hour op., my high spirits had returned. How a person deals with adversity tells you a lot about the strength of character of the person.
Wednesday, day 3
Yesterday Wednesday was OK too - I went out for a walk round the park. And again today.
I have a set of exercises to do four or five times a day at my room, to restore flexibility, but not overdoing it as the tendon has been freshly sewn back.
Thursday, day 4
And today Thursday is more normal still. The person who takes care of my room on a Wednesday morning, while I go for Thai massage two hours, has called daily with food and helped me wash and dress. Good practise for when I'm truly old and decrepid, you might think!!!
Friday, day 5
Then tomorrow, Friday, is the third day after I left hospital and the dressing that protects the wound must be changed every three days. So back to hospital - probably in the morning.
I write all this nonsense as a kind of therapy, away to stay attached to reality.
How to measure the strength of character of a person. Observe them:
-How do they deal with adversity? Do you analyse and draw lessons for yourself, or do you point the finger of blame?
-Faced with a headache of a problem, do you say "oh, I can't do it", or do you persevere till they find the solution?
-Do you stick stubbornly to your decisions, right or wrong, or do you review and are you able to learn from experience?
-Can you accept new thinking without becoming emotional or feeling challenged?
- Are you able to work with others and not feel "ruffled"?
Character is the most important quality a person possesses. It is more important than intelligence, reputation or beauty. What do you think about "character"?
I looked up the etymology of the word "character". It seems to come from the word for an engraving instrument, to carve...carve, carve and carve again. Interesting, eh?!
